I Love Learning to Pray for Sexual Intimacy
Each day in November, I’ll be promoting what I genuinely, authentically love about my journey toward understanding sexual intimacy from the viewpoint of an independent thinker who happens to be...
View ArticleFarewell, 2015
Happy New Year! While all the other more organized blogs are offering helpful advice for a more sane and sexier 2016, I’d like to ask a gift from you. I’ve been waiting to get this off my chest. If...
View ArticleHello, 2016!
Thanks for letting me whine yesterday in saying, ‘Farewell, 2015.’ Hello, 2016! I’ve seen two truths from coping with my stressful 2015 as a low-libido gal. First truth: Remain in constant contact...
View ArticleI’m at Hopeful Wife Today
Our marriage is no stranger to sexual pollution. Pornography has dogged us. According to a study conducted by Barna Research for Provenmen.org, 55% of married Christian men view pornography monthly....
View Article13 Ways My Husband Influenced My Sex Drive
Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, recently a husband left this comment, “I read your blog to help me understand my no drive wife…..….There is no hope after so many years of this. I...
View ArticleHappy 4th Blogversary, OysterBed7!
4 years ago, March 2012, I started writing for the low sex drive Christian wife. There were several amazing Christian sex-positive blogs at that time, but none of them had a low libido wife’s...
View ArticleWhere Did My Sexy Go?
The elusive female libido….OK, You’re right, if a female is under the age of 25, libido isn’t too elusive. However, numbers are beginning to say it isn’t uncommon for the 18-30 year old female to...
View ArticleLife Outside the OysterBed7 (5th Blogversary)
Life outside of the OysterBed for 2016-2017. Personal Life I hesitate to write anything about my life for the past 12 months because I’m afraid the negativity will have you running for funnier and...
View Article6 Years Writing About Sex?!?
6 years ago, I started a Christian marriage blog that turned into a place of encouragement and mentorship for wives that struggle with physical sexual desire. Before the blog, Dave and I facilitated...
View ArticleLife Outside of the OysterBed (6th Blogversary edition)
I wanted to share with you some photos of our past year. My life isn’t much different from yours. Quite a bit of time is spent working on the blog and podcast, but I have other interests and...
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